Romantic Love depends on uncertainty.
Uncertainty allows idealization.
No uncertainty, no idealization.
That’s why close people cannot have romantic love.
That’s why a couple’s romance keeps decreasing.
The way to reduce this problem is to have a distance.
The way to transcend this problem is to have
1. integrity in your heart and
2. an infinite intellectual world in your mind.
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