原來是你, 2.2

相聚零刻 2.4 | 尋覓 2.2.3.6.4

這段改編自 2010 年 10 月 14 日的對話。

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你所中意的人,可能一直在你身邊,只不過是,雙方暫未察覺,或者時機尚未成熟。所以,找到另一半的,其中一個可能劇情是:「竟然是你!」

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心動為戀

戀愛的起點是,竟然是你

心定為愛

戀愛的終點是,依然是你

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你所追求的東西,可能一直在你身邊,只不過是,雙方未有發現;到發現的時候,就可能已經,花了幾年的時間。

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能力範圍內,應盡量避免浪費那幾年,因為,人的青春,尤其是女仔,就只有那幾年。

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避免浪費的主要方法有:

1. 相識於微時 

2. 不要神化異性,要平民化

3. 不要幻化愛情,要現實化

— Me@2022-01-15 11:51:28 AM

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2022.01.16 Sunday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

To realize is to realize, 1.5

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The ultimate self-fulfilling prophecies:

1. free will or not

2. god or no god

3. afterlife or not

4. future spouse exists or not

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Why self-fulfilling?

4. you have another half or not

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If you act as if your future wife exists, you have a much higher chance of finding her, because you have actually been providing the environment for her to exist.

If you act as if your future wife exists, compared with assuming not having one, you live completely differently. You will make yourself financially stable; you will earn and save money for your future wife and children. You will make yourself healthy so that you can live long enough to finally find her; and then stay with her for decades. You will make and meet genuine friends, for you know that one of them is either your future wife or the one who introduces her to you.

If you know that your future wife exists, you will not have any romantic relationship with anyone that is certainly not your future wife, no matter how beautiful she is. Actually, you will not start any romantic relationship with anyone at all, unless she is potentially your future wife.

You will keep writing letters, sending them to the future; to your future wife. Once your future wife realizes that those letters may be actually for her, she will find you to confirm.

— Me@2021-02-19 06:32:05 AM

— Me@2021-03-02 04:39:33 PM

— Me@2022-01-07 10:00:29 AM

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If you act as if your future wife exists, you know that the goal is not to find the “best” lady, but to find your future wife.

Your wife is the key to the lock of your life. Your goal is not to find the “best” key in the world, but to find the key of your life.

It is not to find the “best” key, but to find your key.

— Me@2021-12-03 12:03 PM

— Me@2021-12-05 03:22 AM

— Me@2022-01-07 12:30 PM

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Somewhere out there
beneath the pale moonlight
Someone’s thinking of me
and loving me tonight

— James Horner, Barry Mann, Cynthia Weil

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2022.01.07 Friday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

無拍之拖

原來是你, 2 | 相聚零刻 2.3 | 尋覓 2.2.3.6.3

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電影通常「無中生有」;現實通常「有中生情」。你所追求的東西,可能一直在你身邊,只是你沒有留意。

— Me@2009.04.05

— Me@2012.01.01

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所以,你現在毋須太緊張。

現在的你不用,急於找到對象。或者,到你 25 歲時,才遇到 28 歲的他,會好一點。那時,那個他已經是,思想成熟 和 人格完整的男士。

那不是指,你可以控制。那只是指,理想的劇情怎麼樣。

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(CPK: 廿五歲的我,才認識 28 歲的他?會不會太遲?)

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其實會。理想劇情,應該這樣說:

你倆可能自小,已經認識對方。到你 25 歲時,才開始有劇情,才與他發展成戀人。那樣,如果加上,你懂得閱人讀心術的話,那些劇情可以是,你由拍拖發展至結婚,只需要一個月時間;因為,你並不是只,認識了他一個月,而是在互相表白,確認成情侶前,就已經相識了十幾年,知道對方什麼性格。亦即是話,戀人之前,你倆就已了解對方是,如何對待身邊,尤其是那些,和自己沒有利益關係的人。

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性格上,心靈下,戀愛中,俊男美女,人工合成,都是假的;

性格左,心靈右,戀愛外,義男俠女,原裝正版,才是真的。

— Me@2021-12-28 04:30:02 PM

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2021.12.28 Tuesday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

Ultimate Freedom, 2

Imagination is not an empirical or superadded power of consciousness, it is the whole of consciousness as it realizes its freedom.

— Jean-Paul Sartre

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Your mental world/software world lies your ultimate freedom.

It is where anything not forbidden can happen.

It is where anything logically consistent can happen.

— Me@2016-11-20 09:14:06 AM

— Me@2021-09-26 09:22:54 PM

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2021.09.26 Sunday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

Genius 4

High school teachers are by nature non-intellectuals; students are by nature intellectuals.

— Me@2011.08.23

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As a mathematician there is a story I hear a lot. It tends to come up whenever I tell someone what I do for the first time, and they admit that they don’t really like, or aren’t very good at, mathematics. In almost every case, if I bother to ask (and these days I usually do), I find that the person, once upon a time, was good at and liked mathematics, but somewhere along the way they had a bad teacher, or struck a subject they couldn’t grasp at first, and fell a bit behind. From that point on their experiences of mathematics is a tale of woe: because mathematics piles layer upon layer, if you fall behind then you find yourself in a never ending game of catch-up, chasing a horizon that you never seem to reach; that can be very dispiriting and depressing.

— Zen and the Art of Mathematics

— The Narrow Road

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All children are born geniuses; 9999 out of every 10000 are swiftly, inadvertently degeniusized by grownups.

— Buckminster Fuller

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2021.05.15 Saturday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

To realize is to realize, 1.2.2

So in theory, there is no free will, because the future is already fixed, by the physical laws.

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However, even if we knew the exact physical laws, it would be still logically impossible to get all the data of the present state of the whole universe, because it is logically impossible for any observer to observe itself, with 100% details, directly. For example, no camera can take a picture of itself directly.

So “in practice”, which is actually also “in principle”, there is free will, because logically, no one can predict, with 100% accuracy, your future actions.

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In one logical sense, the future is already fixed, so there is no free will. In another logical sense, the future is fixed, but no observer can know that “fixed future” with 100% accuracy, so there is free will.

As a result, whether you label your actions are due to “free-will” or “not-free-will” has no real consequence. In other words, whether there is free will or not has no meaningful difference.

The difference that makes no difference makes no difference.

So you can actually transcend the free will problem altogether. You can just ignore it and live your life.

Or, you can somehow capitalize on this freedom of labelling your (future) life as either fixed or free, depending which label is more beneficial for you in a particular situation.

For example, when you are highly under pressure, you know that everything is fixed by the physical laws, from god’s point of view. When you are highly above pressure, you know that you are partially responsible for creating your own reality, because the future is not fixed for any one observer, for there is no “god’s point of view”.

You have the flexibility to label it in one way or another.

— Me@2021-05-07 10:27:04 PM

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2021.05.09 Sunday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

To realize is to realize, 1.2

For example, when you ask “how to be a polite person”, you become a polite person.

In other words, when you realize that you should be a polite person, that polite person is realized at that moment.

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The ultimate self-fulfilling prophecies:

1. free will or not

2. god or no god

3. afterlife or not

4. future spouse exists or not

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Why self-fulfilling?

1. free will or not

If we knew the exact physical laws and all the data of the present state of the universe, we would be able to predict, with 100% accuracy, the state of the universe at any future moment.

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In theory, the exact physical laws exist, whether we know them or not. Also, in theory, all the details of the present state of the universe exist, whether we know them or not.

So in theory, there is no free will, because the future is already fixed, by the physical laws.

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However, even if we knew the exact physical laws, it would be still logically impossible to get all the data of the present state of the whole universe, because it is logically impossible for any observer to observe itself directly. For example, no camera can take a picture of itself directly.

So “in practice”, which is actually “in theory”, there is free will, because logically, no one can predict, with 100% accuracy, your future actions.

— Me@2021-04-16 04:45:47 PM

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2021.04.16 Friday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

魔法學堂

你不懂的「科學」,就為之「魔法」。你知原理和步驟的「魔法」,就為之「科學」。

讀書學習,就是化「魔法」成「科學」的過程。

在小說《哈利波特》中,魔法的原理和步驟,其實可以在魔法學校,學得到的。所以,那些所謂的「魔法」,其實是「科學」。

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(問:但其中的「魔法」,十分奇幻。那真的可以稱為「科學」嗎?)

那只是因為,《哈利波特》小說宇宙中的物理定律,和我們宇宙的,不同罷了。

— Me@2011.08.12

— Me@2021-03-19

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2021.03.19 Friday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

To realize is to realize, 1.1

realize

1. (transitive) To become aware of

2. (formal, transitive) To make real

— Wiktionary

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Sometimes, just realization itself is already a realization.

Realization has two meanings.

Sometimes, when you realize something, you realize that something at that very moment.

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察覺

~ 實現

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For example, when you ask “how to be a polite person”, you become a polite person.

In other words, when you realize that you should be a polite person, that polite person is realized at that moment.

— Me@2021-02-19 06:32:05 AM

— Me@2021-03-02 04:39:33 PM

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2021.03.03 Wednesday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

氣功

氣功有真有假。

健康的氣功,應不含宗教成份,應符合科學。

「真氣功」中的「氣」,是指「呼吸」。

健康的氣功,是透過呼吸的訓練,去促進血液循環。

如需查詢,請以電郵聯絡本人。

— Me@2014-08-20 01:42:40 PM

2014.08.20 Wednesday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

Lucid dream

潛行凶間 15 | Inception 15 | 清醒夢

Level 1: have a lucid dream

Level 2: hold the lucid dream

Level 3: un-collapse it while it is collapsing

— Me@2011.07.05

2014.07.30 Wednesday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK

70

I am a 70 year old man living in a 34 year old body.

— Me@2014.04.27 19.01.25

— Me@2014-05-02 02:49:33

2014.05.02 Friday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK