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The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. — Carl Jung
Generalized Newton’s Third Law: You cannot change others without being changed. — John Wheeler
改變別人時, 你也會被改變. — Me
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You are an A person. You befriend with an F person. The result is that your friend becomes a better person, you become a worse person. In theory, you become a C person. Your friend becomes a C person. In practice, since being a bad person is much easier than being a good person, you two will become both F people. — Me
無友不如己者. — 孔子
Be slow in making friends, slower in changing. — Benjamin Franklin
You have to know how to accept rejection and reject acceptance. — Ray Bradbury
If you hire all A people, he said, they’ll also hire A people. But if you hire B people, they’ll hire the C people and then it’s all over. — Joel Spolsky
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So that means you cannot help anyone weaker than you?
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Instead, you should help others. But you have to help others in a smart way. — Me
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How?
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. . . it is the action of the thinking power called an idea, which an individual may exclusively possess as long as he keeps it to himself; but the moment it is divulged, it forces itself into the possession of every one, and the receiver cannot dispossess himself of it. Its peculiar character, too, is that no one possesses the less, because every other possesses the whole of it. He who receives an idea from me, receives instruction himself without lessening mine; as he who lights his taper at mine, receives light without darkening me.
— Thomas Jefferson
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