This essay is adapted from an dialogue on 2009.12.01.
Me: How are you today?
TYC: How come the feeling of loneliness often appears?
Me: You? You have a boyfriend now. But still feel lonely?
TYC: His mobile phone has been confiscated by his teacher temporarily. So I cannot find him now.
Me: Strange. You can phone his home. Or you can use instant messenger or email to contact him.
TYC: I don’t phone his home.
TYC: And his computer has been locked up by his elder brother.
Me: ??? He is really strange…
Me: Do you two have any regular meeting time?
TYC: Yes. Once a week.
Me: Then no need to worry.
Me: No need to be lonely.
TYC: But … I don’t know why I still feel lonely.
Me: Let me tell you the truth. Ready?
Me: Even after marriage, most people still feel lonely.
Me: They are “Married Singles”.
TYC: So I am one of them?
Me: To get rid of loneliness, you must be very “high level”. I can do it only 60% of the time.
Me: Can be 70% when I get a girlfriend.
Me: 80% when I get a wife.
TYC: But why??
TYC: Even though I have got a lover, I still have to be lonely?
Me: I know why.
Me: If the lover is just a biological lover or psychological lover, that’s not enough.
Me: The lover must also be an intellectual lover and a spiritual lover.
Me: That is, someone can transform and be transformed by you.
Me: He can expand your mental horizon. You can expand his spiritual universe.
TYC: Can we really find “the one”?
Me: No guarantee.
Me: Finding “the one” is impossible for human.
Me: That’s why we need God’s help
Me: in order to find “the one”.
TYC: So I still need God -_-
Me: Only God can do the “impossible”.
Me: We cannot.
TYC: OK …
Finding your Amazing Half is impossible.
That’s why you need to provide the environment for God’s miracle.
2010.04.13 Tuesday (c) All rights reserved by ACHK